No one could tell. That was the point. I’ve always been a good actor. As a child, I thought actors were given a story and left alone to feel their way through it. Very disappointing to learn there were scripts. Not just for films. For life. I learned early.
I wish I never saw it. That’s the truth no one writes about. It was never meant to be a story. A piece, a personal essay, a post. I simply stopped. I stopped. That’s where it began. I stopped working. I stopped running. I stopped being distracted. And
We are being watched? Recorded? Seriously? Now this is the problem? We saw it coming. We’ve been seeing it since the internet started. Your search history. Your “read later” lists. Your location on your phone. Your credit cards tracking every move you make. This is not new. What surprised
Knowing is not the hard part. Leaving is. How is it possible that most of the time we choose convenience instead of reality? At one point, it made sense. We followed culture, customs, and rules. We stayed where we were told to stay, even when what we wanted didn’t
They call them red flags for a reason. They’re red. A color you cannot ignore. And they’re flags. Not something hidden. Not something subtle. A flag moves. It catches your eye. It makes sure you see it from every angle. So don’t tell me you didn’t
There comes a point in your life when you stop explaining yourself. Not slowly. Not politely. You just stop. No one needs to know where you are. Or if you’re happy. Or sad. Alone or with good company. I used to think that the people who knew me — really
I call it my “Do I look like I care?” phase. It’s not anger. It’s not indifference. It’s clarity. Something shifts in you. You stop reacting the way you used to. You stop stepping into things that don’t belong to you. And you start asking yourself:
I’ve moved, quit, and relocated so many times I’ve lost count. And moving is always sold as something exciting. A new place. A new job. A different view from your window. Rearranging everything. Housing. Doctors. Hospitals. Dentist. Hairdresser. Even your mechanic. New people. New co-workers. New environments. And
I didn’t suddenly understand life in my 60s. That’s not what happened. I always knew. Not everything. Not all at once. But enough. Enough to know that one day, I wanted a different life. A quieter one. A life where I could choose. Choose who walks into my
How is it that I don’t remember you anymore, when once you were what I lived for? I remember clearly how every day I was still trying to find the time — to call you, to text you, to email you. Now all of that feels like decades ago. It’
A “treatment”? Medical? Psychological? Or just a scheduled hour to unload so you can go back out and function? They call it a safe space. But what are you actually allowed to say in there? Your real thoughts. The ugly ones. The inconvenient ones. The ones that don’t sound
At first, nothing is obvious. Everything still looks the same. The words are still there. The routine is still there. But something shifts. Not outside. Inside. And if you’ve ever been there, you feel it before you understand it. Something is pulling away. Not suddenly. Not in a way